Marriage a joke?

Okay, today was a weird day. It started off with me googling my once favorite singer/songwriter Avril Lavigne. Guess what? shes divorced!..

Let me share a little something she got married to Deryk Whibley in 2005, and got divorced in 2009, after a little over 3 years. No reason given for the divorce only hypocritical statements of them being very good friends, and breaking up on a positive note. they knew each other before they were married for a couple of years.

I'm not an innocent kid unaware of the pathetic world around me, but hey! celebrities who are idolized have more play in the society. For whatever reason they split up, it made me feel so sad, the whole idea of marriage is a cluster fuck these days. Especially in the land of dreams! bull shit dreams.....the American dream is to be single, make a joke out of marriage and weddings and all things sacred and not compromise and be immature about everything. I really want to know what theri respective religion has to say about this lifestyle...

I know there are allot of people in world getting divorced and I might be being very harsh on the couple in question, but I truly had faith in her. I just feel bad for all the young girls who looked up to her and the guys who looked up to Deryk. They must've had a hard time getting over it. And i think it's especially difficult for the fans because they don't get the truth, and hence no closure....

It feels so stupid now to read her statements about her wedding when she got married and how Deryk gave up drugs for her, since they were friends he was sober etc. And then how do things not work out?. And I wonder if these celebrities even feel stupid to remarry and have the big huge wedding with the white gowns and flowers etc. do they not know they're too narcissistic for another marriage to survive?

Shoof, I'm sure i sound angry....and well pathetic......but i had to let it out......lets all promise ourselves to have a steady head on our shoulder and not give in to the option of divorce because it's easier than compromising, and is more and more acceptable in the society. To be a proud woman you need to know your talent is to keep a marriage alive and happening both for yourself and your partner....

thoughts? leave them below....